My mother always said that common sense didn’t exist, because it’s not common. Everyone grows up differently and develops their logic based on the kind of mental training they have the opportunity to learn through. So I’m getting kind of tired of people being berated for not using their common sense.
I watched a supervisor berate a subordinate for not using common sense when it was really busy because he didn’t see a label, so he asked a question. Studies show that logic capabilities are not as strong when a person is under stress. I work in a high stress environment, especially around this time of year, and I don’t see how anyone can survive if they’re not allowed to ask questions, even if the answer is right in front of them. What happened to patience? What happened to kindness? What happened to caring?
So, as a supervisor, I tried to speak up. I tried to say something, but apparently defending other employees means that I’m undermining the authority of another supervisor.
I looked up the standards of business for my place of work. The first thing that is covered is “the way we treat one another.” And I wish I had read this sooner. I wish I had refreshed my memory. Because page one literally says that we have the right to work somewhere free of bullying and harassment. Does anyone know how many employees have come to me feeling that they have been bullied or harassed? Far too many. And I felt that I couldn’t do anything, because my manager won’t do anything about hearsay. The most important person’s word will always be the strongest, and that will never be me.
I quit my job. I start my new one soon. More pay and less responsibility, and hopefully I’ll be out of a depressing and painful environment. But will it be enough? I keep wondering if I should do something. I know that I should do something. I know what to do. But I’m scared. We’re all scared. That’s why none of us have done it yet.
I have two weeks left. Two weeks of feeling caught in the middle. Two weeks of feeling like a pariah. Two weeks left of trying. So should I try? Or will I be shut down? I guess it’s time to find out.