I can’t remember the last time I really got to relax. I can’t remember the last time I got be alone and think and work and write. Which is why I feel almost nonexistent. I’m always working. I’m always with someone. There’s always something else that has to be done. Why don’t we cherish things when we have them?
My heart is not broken, but at the same time, it is. I miss home the most in the summer, when it’s so hot here that I can hardly breathe. All you have to do is exist and you’re sweating. And the rain does nothing to cool the land. I miss my dad and my brother and my best friend. I miss home cooked meals and long drives and being allowed to spend the day in bed. I miss my mom. You never quite learn to appreciate things until they’re gone.
This life is not what I thought it would be. But then again, life never is. It’s full of surprises, good and bad. I used to call myself a writer, but I don’t think I can say that anymore. I’m not even trying anymore. Any talent that I may have once have has disappeared in the busyness of work, and relationship, and life.
I don’t know what I want. And I don’t know why I complain so much. As humans, I guess that we are never quite content. I miss the days when I would sit in silence and meditation, but I live as though there’s no time for that anymore. I can’t make the days grow any longer.
As I write this, I know I still need to go buy groceries. I still need to clean my apartment. I still need to do so many things that won’t get done if I’m not the one to do them. Because I am an adult. Adulthood snuck up on me. It probably sneaks up on all of us. Even though we spend our childhood chasing adulthood. How foolish are we to want this freedom that isn’t really freedom at all.